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V\u00a0priebehu kr\u00e1tkej doby toti\u017e doch\u00e1dza […]","datePublished":"2018-02-27","dateModified":"2018-02-27","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.bambu.sk\/author\/#Person","name":"","url":"https:\/\/www.bambu.sk\/author\/","identifier":1,"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/93869824c8aa580f0d16049ad31e69846ffc925e0cbb2826cc9554f53943da69?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/93869824c8aa580f0d16049ad31e69846ffc925e0cbb2826cc9554f53943da69?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"bambu.sk","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"\/logo.png","url":"\/logo.png","width":600,"height":60}},"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/www.bambu.sk\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a287442_w16491_t1524840857.jpg","url":"https:\/\/www.bambu.sk\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a287442_w16491_t1524840857.jpg","height":0,"width":0},"url":"https:\/\/www.bambu.sk\/ako-ustat-pubertacku-burku\/","wordCount":393,"articleBody":"Prechod z\u00a0detsk\u00e9ho sveta do sveta dospel\u00fdch je n\u00e1ro\u010dn\u00e9 pre die\u0165a, ako aj pre samotn\u00e9ho rodi\u010da. V\u00a0priebehu kr\u00e1tkej doby toti\u017e doch\u00e1dza mno\u017estvo zmien. Niet divu, \u017ee sa dospievaj\u00faci ocitaj\u00fa v stave zm\u00e4tku, niekedy sa a\u017e boja. \u010casto str\u00e1caj\u00fa sebavedomie, skr\u00e1tka maj\u00fa zo sebou plno pr\u00e1ce. V\u00a0telesnej rovine rast\u00fa ako z\u00a0vody, \u010do \u010dasto rodi\u010dia sleduj\u00fa na oble\u010den\u00ed, z\u00a0ktor\u00e9ho ve\u013emi r\u00fdchlo vyrast\u00fa. Telo sa im doslova men\u00ed pred o\u010dami a\u00a0nie v\u017edy sa s\u00a0t\u00fdmito zmenami hne\u010f vysporiadaj\u00fa. V\u00a0citovej rovine pre\u017e\u00edvaj\u00fa zvraty n\u00e1lad i\u00a0pocitov.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Dospievaj\u00faci sa dost\u00e1vaj\u00fa pod nemal\u00fd tlak a\u00a0preto potrebuj\u00fa o\u00a0mnoho v\u00e4\u010d\u0161iu podporu rodi\u010dov ne\u017e v\u00a0detstve. Nem\u00e1lo rodi\u010dov sa sna\u017e\u00ed zvl\u00e1da\u0165 kr\u00edzu dospievaj\u00faceho veku svojich det\u00ed t\u00edm, \u017ee sa chopia uzdy a\u00a0preberaj\u00fa \u00fapln\u00fa kontrolu nad svojimi de\u0165mi. Niketor\u00ed rozkazuj\u00fa a\u00a0naria\u010fuj\u00fa, s\u00fa pr\u00edsny vo v\u0161etkom, \u010do robia, bojuj\u00fa s\u00a0dospievaj\u00facimi ako o\u00a0\u017eivot. In\u00ed sa sna\u017eia vyh\u00fdba\u0165 ak\u00e9muko\u013evek konfliktu, nesna\u017eia sa v\u00fdchovne p\u00f4sobi\u0165 na t\u00edned\u017eera .\u00a0Oba tieto pr\u00edstupy maj\u00fa v\u0161ak v\u00fdrazn\u00e9 z\u00e1pory:\u00a0–Autoritat\u00edvni rodi\u010dia \u010dasto svojim pr\u00edstupom k\u00a0mlad\u00fdm sp\u00f4sobuj\u00fa konflikt. Toto \u010dasto vy\u00fas\u0165uje do stiahnutia t\u00edned\u017eera do \u00fazadia. Kedy doch\u00e1dza k\u00a0tajnostk\u00e1rstvu pred rodi\u010dom. T\u00edned\u017eeri za\u010dn\u00fa taji\u0165 pred rodi\u010dmi ve\u013ea vec\u00ed, nezveruj\u00fa sa im s\u00a0ich probl\u00e9mami.\u00a0-Deti pr\u00edli\u0161 liber\u00e1lnych rodi\u010dov m\u00e1vaj\u00fa zase \u010dasto pocit, \u017ee sa o\u00a0ich rodi\u010dia nezauj\u00edmaj\u00fa. A\u00a0tak s\u00fa \u010dastej\u0161ie n\u00e1chylnej\u0161\u00ed k\u00a0nebezpe\u010dn\u00e9mu chovaniu.Preto je d\u00f4le\u017eit\u00e9 spr\u00e1vne zvoli\u0165 zlat\u00fa stredn\u00fa cestu. Poskytn\u00fa t\u00edned\u017eerom podporu a\u00a0l\u00e1sku a\u00a0taktie\u017e aj hranice, aby sa za seba u\u010dili by\u0165 zodpovedn\u00ed. \u010eal\u0161\u00edm cie\u013eom je pomoc dospievaj\u00facim, aby vyr\u00e1stli ako\u00a0sebavedom\u00ed dospel\u00ed \u013eudia, dok\u00e1zali sa o\u00a0seba postara\u0165, mohli v\u00a0bud\u00facnosti nadv\u00e4zova\u0165 int\u00edmne vz\u0165ahy a\u00a0z\u00e1rove\u0148 nestratili v\u00e4zbu na rodinu.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Neost\u00e1vajme preto \u013eahostajn\u00ed pred ich neprimeran\u00fdm konan\u00edm \u010di agresivitou. Av\u0161ak nezasahujme a\u017e pr\u00edli\u0161. 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